Blog post 4: Intercultural communication

Communication between people of different cultures may result in confusion and misunderstanding. This is usually caused by the lack of understanding of cultures. We often think that we know about the cultures in Singapore, but this is where we’re often mistaken.

There was a time when I was at my sister’s-in-law parents’ place for her ‘mehndi’ or ‘henna’ ceremony which basically involves colouring of the bride’s hands with dye for good luck. Her Indian parents were serving food and drinks to the guests. However, having eaten before the ceremony, I was pretty full. Upon thanking the mother and refusing dinner, I realized that I had made a mistake as she was clearly offended. By refusing to eat, I had insulted her which wasn’t my intention. To make up for it, I took second helpings of the food and complimented her on the ceremony. I had initially thought that I knew a lot about the Indian culture from my constant watching of Bollywood movies, but I was clearly wrong. I’m glad to say I have learnt a lot more about the Indian culture from my sister-in-law consequently.

The importance of intercultural communication is clearly presented in the above example as I had to explain to her that I did have dinner about an hour ago but I would be glad to sample a little of everything. Instead of shying away and ignoring her, I understood her position and immediately tried to placate her to ensure that she understood I was not shunting her culture. The only way to ensure racial cohesion is by fostering intercultural communication.

Blog post 3: Application letter

Application for internship, details at: http://ejobcentre.nus.edu.sg/Jobs/jobdesc.asp?type=0&eid=4763291&jid=2212114&did=314&its=0&src=8&itn=

Dear Ms Madeleine Chong,

I am applying for the internship position as a journalist, as stated in the university’s website. Being keen and passionate, I will be grateful to be offered an opportunity to write for Singapore Press Holdings. I’m willing to learn and adapt to any environment required by the position. As a quick learner and hardworking individual, I thrive working under deadlines.

Studying Science was a path that I had always intended to undertake as I was curious about the way everything worked. As a Life Science major, I have consistently carried out research to write reports and am able to quickly grasp new concepts and ideas quickly. Such assignments often require an exceptional command of the English language, as scientific papers often deal with elaborate jargon. Details are always focused on while keeping the larger picture in mind. Framing new concepts in simple terms is a skill that I have mastered during the years. Concomitantly, should any task require scientific terminology, my years studying Science will be prove to be advantageous and applicable.

While studying in NUS, I have read several modules from the Faculty of Arts and Social Sciences, to broaden my knowledge beyond that of the world of Science. Subjects such as Psychology and Sociology have enabled me to better understand the people while modules such as Social Issues and Economics deal with affairs of the evolving world. On several occasions, I have held interviews and surveys for my modules. From such experiences, I have learnt that communication is crucial when handling sensitive issues and I believe that I have the necessary skills.

Being a former student councillor has taught me to be initiative and brave when faced with challenging situations. Involvement in team groups such as Choir have shown the importance of teamwork as people around can often assist you to improve the final product.

I would like to reiterate my keen interest in this opportunity and hope that I will be considered for the position. I appreciate you taking the time to review my application. Thank you. Please do contact me at 96914140 should you require any additional information.

With regards,
Jihan Abdat